When we are facing challenges, we often don’t consider the state we are in. Instead we just do our best to tackle the problem at hand. However, our state of being or state of mind makes a huge difference. It really helps to get into the resourceful state. Software Bugs I encountered this before I […]
If you were to ask people what they’d most like to eliminate in their life, they’d usually answer about all the problems they are facing. “If I could just get rid of these problems, then life would be good.” However, this really isn’t true. Our problems are not the problem. If we got rid of all […]
We always want to help people make more of a difference in a way that’s perfect for them. In order to do this, we need to be able to ask engaging questions. You can help us do a better job at it. We are seeking your input and feedback. Following is a list of questions. […]
If you listen for them, you will hear people express their worldviews. These worldviews are a representation of how the person understands how life works. They determine what a person expects and shapes their choices and behaviors. Worldviews can hinder us in a major way or they can truly propel us forward. Here are a […]
If you are already doing something to make a difference, is it a great fit for you or is it drudgery? Or is it just somewhere between a great fit and drudgery? Drudgery Drudgery is when you do something even though you don’t really want to do it. Maybe it seems like you should enjoy […]
Think of your life as a sheet of notebook paper. On this sheet, there is the main part of the page, and there is the margin on the side. The page presents the main things in your life, and the margin hold the extra things in your life if there’s time, energy and funds left […]
One of my mentors, many years ago shared this awesome quote, “If you’re riding a dead horse, for God’s sake, dismount.” This statement is pretty funny because it seems so obvious and absurd. But in practice, it’s quite tricky. The reason it’s tricky is that pretty much nothing is ever fully dead. It’s just mostly […]
If you were to live full out to win the prize, to know that you finished well, what would that look like? For most of us, if we lived full out, our life would look pretty different. I love this quote: “Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving […]
Have you ever noticed how many bad drivers there are on the road? There’s a lot of them. But that’s not you, right? Surely you’re one of the good ones. Interestingly, studies show that people tend to rate themselves as being a better driver than most other people. But it simply can’t be true that […]
Before I was self-employed, I worked for various companies. There was this standard message that I was given at many of these places. Not long after I hired on, I was sat down and told something like, “You don’t matter. If you don’t produce the results we want, we’ll let you go and get someone […]
